Fate, Free Will, and the Illusion of Manifestation: An Introspective Journey

Is my life really written in the stars?! Or Am I only here to predict what’s next because when my so-called manifestation came into fruition, I didn’t feel the feelings I was “supposed” to feel?  Maybe it’s not real yet but my reaction wasn’t to my satisfaction.

Manifestation or Just Fate ??

Manifestation refers to the process of bringing something into reality through thoughts, beliefs, and intentions. It is often associated with the idea of having a desire, a wanting of something, and making that desire a real-life physical representation of that said thing.

Fate refers to the idea that the events in our lives are predetermined and inevitable, often beyond our control. It suggests that a fixed course of events will happen regardless of one’s actions or decisions. 

Free Will and The Illusion Of Manifestation

Here’s the Concept

Life is already written, you’re just living out the script. 

I can connect this to the free will theory.

 Do we as humans truly have free will??

Something I’ve been “manifesting” came into fruition, A life-changing manifestation, but when it did I didn’t feel the “thing” I was supposed to feel. Reflecting on the concept of manifestation, and the disappointment in not experiencing the feelings I expected created a disconnect between my expectations and reality. This raised the question of whether or not the effectiveness of my manifestation truly aligned with genuine free will or whether this was merely an illusion. If one has the power to manifest, why might one’s emotional response not align with their intentions?

Like many people, I struggle when a lived experience does not match my expectations. An experience like that has one reconsidering their beliefs about control, destiny, and the true nature of fulfillment and what that could look like. This brings me back to a concept I was pondering a few years ago. Do you really want what you think you want or do you just like the idea of having/being such? Because when I had the opportunity and funds to bring a major deals to life, it was the furthest thing on my mind. As a matter of fact, I completely wasted opportunities on fast satisfaction putting me back or sometimes in the hole on my journey. How could this be, the situation created the principle of me vs me.

The Concept of Me vs. Me: Are Your Desires Truly Your Own

The concept of “me vs. me” refers to the internal struggle individuals often face when reconciling their true selves with their desires, expectations, and external influences. This internal conflict highlights the tension between who we are and who we feel we should be. I’ve always felt like my life worked within perfect timing. So it’s something I try my best to innerstand however the question challenges the authenticity of my desires. Promoting introspection about whether we genuinely desire something or if we are attracted to the concept or image of it. This ties into discussions about manifestation and free will. Are our pursuits truly aligned with our authentic selves, or are they influenced by external expectations? For me the idea suggests a disconnect between what I thought I wanted and my actual desires. It raised the question, how often do we chase goals that may not resonate with our true selves? While I had the power to choose, my decisions led to dissatisfaction and setbacks. This aligns with the broader discussions of fate, free will, and the nature of fulfillment, suggesting that our choices should be intentional and reflective of our true selves rather than influenced by fleeting desires or societal expectations.

Do you truly desire what you claim to want, or are you simply captivated by the idea of it? Often, our ambitions and aspirations are not entirely our own; they can be shaped by external influences. Whether it’s the success of others, societal expectations, or trends that catch our attention. We frequently find ourselves in a position where we do not fully understand our desires until we encounter someone who embodies the traits or achievements we admire. This realization prompts me to reflect on the authenticity of my goals and whether they genuinely resonate with my true self.

Conclusion Rooted Values Shadow Work: The Journey Towards Self Discovery

Are your desires genuinely rooted in your values??

In summary, the connection between desire, authenticity, and the impact of external influences causes individuals to reflect on their motivations, encouraging a journey toward self-discovery that prioritizes genuine aspirations over superficial desires shaped by admiration for outside influences. 

Workshop Portion 

Below are some thought-provoking questions you may find difficult to answer but are relevant to moving  forward on your journey to self-discovery, focusing on an important lesson Rooted Values:

 Challenging Questions:

1. What would your life look like if you were not influenced by societal expectations or the opinions of others?

2. Are you genuinely pursuing your passions, or are you adhering to a path that others have laid out for you?

3. How do you differentiate between your true desires and those that have been conditioned by your environment?

4. What fears or beliefs are holding you back from fully understanding your authentic self?

5. If you stripped away all external influences, what do you believe would be your core values?

6. How would your life change if you embraced vulnerability and uncertainty in your journey?

7. What does fulfillment truly mean to you, and how does it differ from what you have been led to believe?

8.  Identify Core Values: Create a list of your core values. They can use prompts like “What do I stand for?” or “What principles guide my decisions?” This exercise helps ground your sense of self.

9. Set Intentional Goals: Set goals that align with your identified values rather than societal expectations. Ask Yourself, “Does this goal reflect who I am and what I truly want?”

10. Embrace Discomfort: Step out of your comfort zone. Trying new activities or exploring different interests can lead to greater self-awareness and help discover hidden passions.

Bonus

Cultivate Patience: Self-discovery is a journey, not a destination. Be patient with yourself as you navigate thoughts and feelings.

Start reflecting on these challenging questions. Take proactive steps toward self-discovery. You can begin to peel back the layers of external influences. Uncover your authentic selves rooted in your very own core values.